I have the DR book and have started to read it. Sandi suggested I jump to the LRT section first because of where things are at which I have. I am really struggling to detach and would really appreciate some help with that. I think about her every day and weekends are the hardest as I know she is out and most likely meeting other guys, its so hard. How long does it take for this to feel better? Especially as I lived for her and the boys it feels like my world has been ripped apart. Nothing really makes sense without her and I hate feeling like that. Is DR going to help even if she is gone and may never be coming back? I'm going through so many different sets of emotions right now it's hard to clarify what I am really feeling anymore.