Ok so I have been working on 180s. My h complained I was not intimate enough. So when this all went down I stepped up to the plate. Then I was told no BC it feels just like sex. Then it turned to where he would fake sleepwalk and we'd be intimate. Once I figured out the pa I stopped this and he does not try sleepwalking anymore.
How do I do a 180 on intimacy when I can't even get a hug or kiss? Also don't want to risk std. Ideas?