Wife wants a divorce

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Thanks. The thing is the 180 and GAL are opposites for me. I used to do a lot of things (concerts, traveling, hobbies) for myself. So if i did a 180 i wouldn't GAL but if i GAL i wouldn't do a 180. After reading the book i decided on a 180. Giving her what she's always wanted(me being supportive discipline wise (at least in front of our daughter), not being consumed by the computer or games or anything, helping out a lot more around the house.)

We are on vacation at my grandmothers house in Florida right now and she has posted some pictures of the places we have gone and she said i was right about one guy from her work (I've been telling her for a while to watch out for him (he comes immediately when she has computer problems or other issues) and she says he's older and happily married. Well today she said "you might be right about 'John' he just sent me a message saying he wishes he was here with me". I was even tagged in the post so he knows I'm here with her. She was obviously disturbed by him (or the best acting job I've ever known). She said she's going to have to keep her distance from him.

Then tonight before bed (wife and daughter are sleeping in the guest room I'm on the sleeper sofa) we hugged, she says "your heart is racing" i tell her i just think about things at night usually. She knows what this means. She says she's sorry. Pats my chest and gets in the bed.