I have angry issues, which I have been better in the last few years, and I is one of the issues I am seeing the counselor for. But over the years she has asked me to do something about it and I did not. I also believe that I have suffered from mild but very real depression. Guess the medication I have been subscribed for anxiety will help that is well, curious how it will effect me in a week or two since I just started today.
Over the years we have "lost" touch, rarely going out or spending time together. Little or no affection on either part. My concern was money (aka debt and creating more) which is why I basically never did anything like that. I think we have been talking past one another for a long time. For me, a lot has to do with being fiscally responsible, an issue we are far apart on. Like her with my anger I have told her many times over the years money issues are the only thing that kept me up at night.
I got DB today and have been reading it voraciously. I am very happy to report the MC we are too see this coming week is a practitioner of SBT :-), that is reassuring. I know her current therapist who have helped her tremendously from a medication stand point is also very Freudian. Hopefully it will go well and we will see her many times.
Funny thing is I have more or less cut/seriously minimized contact with her and in the last couple of days she has called me, grant it I think her real interest has been in my doctors visit and medication, but still. DB so far is great, makes me really think about my kids more than anything, but when I look at our marriage problems its so much like the stories in the book. Gonna get back to reading now.
