Wife moved out to be with her Tour Guide Lover

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This is the original email sent in July 13 by S21 (he was 20) to wife's affair partner

Well if this is Xxxx's Facebook I want you to know that you are single handedly ruining my family. Do you have any regard for the people you are hurting? Do you even care or is this all about getting off with an attractive woman.

You are not only hurting us, the people I thought you actually cared about, but you are hurting my mom. She may think things are perfect now, she may think she's happy but she'll realize in time the mistake you caused her to make. You are going to be the reason she loses everything, her house, her family, her life! You are the most selfish person I know, I thought being Jewish was about doing what was right, being a good person and caring for those you love. If you really cared about my mom and my family you wouldn't be taking her away from us.

She thinks this is some spiritual awakening, but this is not what God would want this is the exact opposite! It isn't spiritual at all, you think you are some righteous man you think you are a good man? Well you aren't, you are the worst kind of man. You are the man I hope neither me nor my brother ever grow up to become. You are selfish and careless, you think this is out of love? This is a crush, when you realize who my mother really is when you see more than just the schoolgirl crush she has on you now things will change. My parents have been together for 27 years and yes there are ups and downs but that does not give you the right to swoop in and be the hero especially because once that phase is over and things start to settle you will realize why my parents fight, you will realize why things are the way they are.

And when that happens and you want nothing to do with my mom, you will have destroyed her, because we will never forgive her for this.. I have learned one thing from this. If all Israelis are anything like you, I hope to never go back to Israel again. I hope your happy with what you are doing because I know I will never forgive you, my brother will never forgive you and worst of all God will never forgive you..