I did not suggest that he confront W about her A. Simply said to ask her about the book's comments and listen to what she had to say about it. This is what most people would do if they had something like that out in their front porch. I'd want to know what that's all about and hear their side.
Confronting and asking a simple question are two completely separate things, Ye.
As for A, I've been around the boards long enough to know that the vast majority of WASes have OW/OM in the picture. It is not mindreading at all, but comes with DB experience. What I am doing here is preparing GoFo for the real possibility that his W is indeed in an A. It is always best to be prepared than look silly when talking with a WAS, right?
