We really don't have much contact anymore. that fact alone makes me sad.
But since the divorce is not final we still see each other every couple weeks at the attorney's office. And he makes comments about a future for us every time.
I think he just wants me to sit in a shelf and be his Plan B.
It's very common for WAS to try to keep options open. This also provides them all the time they want to wean themselves away from you. Major Cake-Eating. So, I would make myself as unavailable to WAS as possible.
Make sure you get your own atty. Do not count on H to make any $$$ decisions that will benefit you. WAS are very selfish creatures.
that fact alone makes me sad.