Saw him today, briefly for a kid function.

It went well enough. Friendly, no mention of a future.

Then he called a few hours later, just to ask me a question. Totally not kid related. Pretty much unheard of these days so I don't know what that was about.

I'm going out with new friends tonight, from a divorce group.

I had therapy today. She pretty much thinks I should be over him and never be willing to take him back.

I do think about that a lot myself. He has lied to me, betrayed me, ignored our kids...is it really possible he could ever be a decent husband and father again? And could I possibly stay married to a man that had a 2 year (or more!) affair and still respect myself?

Would he respect me? Maybe she really is his true love? (No. He continued to lie to her and cheat on her with me for a very long time)