Thanks Job. I don't think he is going to continue dragging his feet much longer. It's been 10 months, and now the counselor is pushing him to do something - anything. And he has to be 'accountable' to her. I could tell he was just so dang proud of himself that he came over and said he wanted to 'end the marriage.' (Still can't quite bring himself to say the 'D' word. Just SAY it already!) Pretty much just what he's been telling me for the last 10 months already. Ugh. Oh, and the counselor doesn't think it's MLC (never mind that she has only talked to him about 4 times total so far, since last summer)! Has not seen the Jekyl and Hyde thing, or the crying, and confusing, contradicting talk. While we were talking the other day, he also asked me who my best friends are now??? And do I really like my job???
I'll wait another few days before I respond re: mediation...
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15