Upwards - Moving Fowards, Tiny Positive Steps

[whytry]

Up, I can say my W did the same to me and it did allow me to reflect a little more. I was just beginning to see things for what they really were and ye21 is right we have to work past our own demons per se. Now would I have loved for her to get away...sure. BUT I wasn't ready then and still was fighting inside and holding a lot in. My clarity took minimum 6 months (when my W started DB) until I broke and I know she was trying before then. If he is similar to my sitch, he will have a heavy hearted talk with himself (you'll know when it happens) and the last detail he thinks of will flip the light switch so to speak. I woke up after that day and my whole view of the world was different. Didn't fix my WAS but I began to see myself happy again.