afraid I have waited too long #3

[nit84]

So last night my Dad called to tell me my fishing rod and things are in his garage.

We chatted for awhile about if I was going fishing or not. I was just about to leave to go get the stuff and my W comes down and goes into the garage like she is leaving so I wait and it was taking some time so I went into the garage and she was standing there looking around.

I said what are looking for? She said my fishing rod I said oh ok.

Well last year when I was not living at home I took my fishing stuff out but left hers right where I put it a year prior because we hadn't gone in awhile.

When I did this she commented "oh so now you are going fishing?" I replied yes. She said "after all the times I begged for you to take me fishing and you said we were too busy or didn't want to go to camp because there was too many people there. Now you are going." I replied "you are more than welcome to come I don't think our Brother-in-law will mind" she said no thank you.

So back to last night, I told her it should be right behind all that stuff because I left there when I took mine.

She said "Are you going fishing." "I said thinking about it but not sure because of an unexpected funeral." I continued "Yes I am going to my Parents now to get my stuff. Are you going fishing?" she said "that why I am looking for my rod" in a frustrated tone. I said "sorry to upset you by that question." She says "its not that, It is just funny how I go fishing often and you don't but now you are going."

I was thinking the last time she went fishing I was her and it was over 2 years ago but left it go.

I said "I went 3 or 4 times last year and I am going to try to go more often this year."

She came back with "all those times I begged you to take me fishing and you said no just upsets me."

I said "we went fishing some, I guess you wanted to go more."

I felt like asking if she wants to go but just left and went to get my stuff.

Not that I care but it proves she pays attention to what I say when I am on the phone. She was upstairs and I was downstairs so she had to pay close attention because I was not talking loudly.

Should I invite her fishing? I expect she will decline but at least I offered or do I just let her go do what she says she has planned and not worry about an invitation?