Thats the key, you are doing great, step back and watch from a confi place, this is his road and its extremely important he walks this road himself.
You have been doing great, and it seems that its working, keep doing what it works.
Thanks, Right now we are NC (except for last night as son was poorly) so he'll have lots of space & I can't really do anything different at the moment. It's for the best right now though as he really needs the space at the mo.
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he wants to go away with you? I think you need to be patient and don't be involved in going away with him, not yet.
He didn't mean at the moment, I won't be going anywhere yet - thanks for the concern though, it's something we could do further down the line if/when we both want to, I think he was "testing the water" to see if I'd want to.
Divorce Final: Oct 2014
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