As if witnessing real time sexting between your W and the OM is healthy in any way. I'm still trying to forget what I saw
Not something pleasant for sure, but you know it's happening. My suggestion is to learn to deal with it now, so you don't have an emotional response to it later at an inopportune time. That's part of detachment.
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Is she embarrassed, hedging her bets, scared to say what is going on, or unsure?
Yes to all. And who she tells what also has to do with how much respect she has for that person.
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I didn't offer anything else about how I felt. Good move or bad move?
Good move, of course. WAW is total narcissist. She doesn't care an iota about how you feel. In fact, you probably can't feel bad enough to satisfy her. If you had mentioned your feelings, she would likely complain about how you make this "All about you"
