One thing I forgot to add. Complete mind reading by me, but I can't figure out why she isn't telling people. Is she embarrassed , hedging her bets, scared to say what is going on, or unsure? Or all of the above? Or none. Who knows

Me: 40
Wife: 38
M: 10. T: 18
S: 8, D: 6, S: 4
BD 02/01/14
Asked her to leave 02/01/14

Keeping the dream alive