It's funny . I was hoping that if she moved back in it would belongs rebuild. It also was to prove to the world that her and Om's stories of abuse were false. Who in their right mind moves back after running from an abuser?!
Ok so that was if she moved in within a week or two from coming home from Israel. But as time wore on I wanted it less and less.
Then I spoke to one of the coaches Chuck and he told me to tell her no. But then the collaborative financial advisor said that because we owe on our sons university loans (not free in USA) and the house and s15!is going Ivy League we need to get our finances in order. Her AP said he would pay half her rent. My kids feel mom is a high prices escort he pays for hotels clothes meals and she sleeps with him.
I could not have that opinion of their mom .
But now that in reality she's coming back while having the affair I am like ugh I think Mr Bond is right it's my control issues. I "controlled" her moving in and now I am in control if when she moves out!
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965