Question: Some thoughts are popping to mind but some of them involve my wife. I feel that what I want is important in this process and I don't plan on living my life alone. Should I be including my wife on a 'when times are good' basis, or writing them down as a 'with someone regardless of who it is' or avoiding these types of things?
No....This is about becoming you again.
Thinking in "couple" terms will come later on...
Originally Posted By: Barry
For example, I want my wife to be able to trust me, to feel comfortable giving me and receiving my affection and I would like to make love as well as have sex with her. I don't have any intention to do these things with anyone else however I understand that my wife may not be the person who benefits from the person I'll aspire to be. I also feel that these things will be an important part of my life moving forward though I understand I have a lot of personal growth to do before I experience certain things with my wife again.
Okay....
So let's start your list with...
Trustworthy....
You want to be trustworthy....
That should be a quality that YOU want to show...regardless if it is your wife or not....
