I don't totally get your question. D is still with me every night. H comes over to spend time with her several days/week. When he comes after work, he puts her to bed and I come home after she is in bed. He offered to stay as long as I would like so that I could go out if I wanted. (D would be asleep). The other night, I asked him to stay a bit later than our agreed upon time. He said he couldn't, but apologized via text that night, and then sent an email the next day apologizing again. I guess he feels some guilt, but that is not enough to get him to reconsider.
