Spouse tried I didn't, now opposite

[paul19510]

Whytry, its great that you are getting out. It will help you. I know my W is telling neighbors she thinks that there's OW in my life... because I filed for D and because I go out with friends and GAL. I think they want to be gone and have us pine away that they are not here.

it may also be that if H had tried previously and you (as you say) didn't he may be resentful now. He may think its not real and you're just jerking him around. Its hard to say. Anyway, keep working on getting healthy. That's going to help you no matter what.