I got home from work today and there was a book left on the porch, it is one of my W's that someone was returning. I open the front cover and written in it is "Bitch, C@nt, sh@t for a mother, go to hell, your life will be living hell, you have ruined your family tree, hope your husband throws you out"

This has me feeling quite upset. I don't know who left it or if they assume my W lives at home still or they wanted me to find it. This seems to point to a high possibility of an A and it has me feeling sick. I know there were rumors that she had cheated on me flying around work, but I never put much stock into it. That is the normal rumor up there for many people when others are mad at them.

This was the one thing that I never had to confront or think about because of the respect I thought we had for each other. I am sure every spouse that has been cheated on felt this way though.

Next Thursday we were supposed to have dinner together. Don't know if I should confront her about it then, or some other time, or never. Need some advice on this one.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15