Thanks again for the help and answering my questions. So far my 180s have involved the girls. We work different shifts and I cannot afford sitters all the time. I really hesitate to ho out when he had night off, as he keeps saying he is getting evidence on me. I don't do anything the few times I have gone out, usually talk with friends, movie, or go for drive. I truly am a home body, which I am breaking.
I will keep at the boundaries'. Eventually he will listen. H has so much guilt now he can't look me in the eyes. Seems weird, but makes me feel powerful. I also am being more decisive and less passive. He keeps asking where all the feistiness is coming from. Duh...5 months of nonsense from him.
