I am interested to hear what she has to say as she has yet to explain why she wants to end our marriage so suddenly. I know we weren't perfect bit we were pretty good. Also I've yet to see any remorse for her affair, that would be nice.
See, you have already set yourself up for disappointment. She may go as far as to say she never wanted to cause you pain (or something similar), and she might even say she's sorry you were hurt........however, do not look for her to show remorse for the A.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
