I'm just afraid divorce will change us too much in order to reconcile
And I guess that could be true, but...
Just keep DBing, because if you don't then there's probably no hope at all and... even if it doesn't save your marriage, it will save YOU. That is, all that 180ing and GALing will make surviving the divorce much much easier. And if you keep up the 180ing and GALing, you will be far less likely to find yourself in this position again once you're in another relationship.
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14
