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Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks BrightFuture #2444815 04/10/14 09:58 PM
Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 242 Michigan L LiveNow OP Member
OP LiveNow Member L Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 242 Michigan	Bright -- yes, I heard the 'I wanna move on' thing too, back in October. Well, he does have an OW, so I guess he kinda did? If that's what moving on means... So, I said I would think about whether I thought we could just use a mediator and not each have attorneys and go to court, and then get back to him. I honestly have no idea why we need a mediator (anyone?). Truly thought that's only needed if you disagree on something. We can write all this stuff up ourselves and run it by (our own) attorneys, no mediation required. I think. So, here's what I am planning to e-mail him in response, in another day or two: "Whichever method you think you'd like to use is fine with me." So, as far as DB'ing goes -- what is my best course of action right now? Deep, deep down, I still am not convinced he really knows what he wants. But I do know the counselor (same one I'm going to) and she is pushing him to do SOMETHING, and then he has to be 'accountable' to her for doing it. She is not pro-divorce, but I know her methods. Should I just be agreeable and totally cooperative - IF he goes ahead and actually DOES something??? Need some pointers...THANKS. Meanwhile, I'm good. I am ok with whatever comes my way now. Somehow I managed to flip that switch -- let go of the rope. It's so FREEING! Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15

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New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/04/14 01:30 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Cadet	04/04/14 10:59 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Wonka	04/04/14 11:25 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/06/14 11:39 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/06/14 11:45 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	TL72*	04/07/14 04:15 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Wonka	04/07/14 04:18 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	owl777	04/07/14 06:20 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/07/14 10:02 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	TL72*	04/08/14 03:20 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BklynMom	04/09/14 12:41 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/09/14 12:45 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	TL72*	04/09/14 01:04 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/09/14 11:40 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	mleigh4	04/10/14 01:16 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BrightFuture	04/10/14 09:44 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/10/14 09:58 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	job	04/10/14 10:15 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/11/14 07:54 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	nyk	04/12/14 01:36 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/13/14 07:22 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/13/14 07:49 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	job	04/13/14 08:55 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	scooby	04/13/14 09:18 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/14/14 12:09 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	nyk	04/14/14 10:00 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/15/14 10:33 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	nyk	04/17/14 04:01 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/17/14 10:30 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	scooby	04/17/14 11:21 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BrightFuture	04/18/14 12:07 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/18/14 12:44 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	nyk	04/18/14 10:23 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/19/14 01:16 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	scooby	04/19/14 05:18 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	nyk	04/20/14 01:04 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/25/14 12:50 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	kml	04/25/14 12:59 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	praying_in_GA	04/25/14 05:36 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/08/14 04:16 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/08/14 11:49 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	job	05/09/14 11:58 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/13/14 01:17 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/14/14 02:00 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	TL72*	05/14/14 03:18 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Georgiabelle	05/14/14 03:32 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/15/14 01:55 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/15/14 01:57 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BrightFuture	05/15/14 02:59 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/17/14 12:13 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	daring	05/19/14 12:44 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Ggrass	05/19/14 01:01 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/20/14 02:18 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/20/14 04:11 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/20/14 08:24 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	owl777	05/20/14 08:50 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/20/14 09:20 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/23/14 12:16 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/26/14 01:51 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	06/10/14 01:21 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	07/27/14 10:47 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	beatrice	07/28/14 08:24 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Shining	07/28/14 08:17 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	07/28/14 11:53 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	beatrice	07/29/14 09:08 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	07/29/14 11:42 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Shining	07/30/14 01:16 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	AJM	07/30/14 01:24 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	07/30/14 02:33 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Shining	07/30/14 06:25 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	AJM	07/30/14 02:47 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/01/14 12:10 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	AJM	08/01/14 01:16 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/01/14 09:47 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	AJM	08/01/14 10:07 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/01/14 10:27 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	AJM	08/02/14 01:45 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/04/14 12:33 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	T-boned	08/05/14 06:19 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BrightFuture	08/06/14 02:00 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/07/14 01:59 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BrightFuture	08/08/14 02:11 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/12/14 01:23 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Matt165	08/12/14 01:48 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	beatrice	08/12/14 07:39 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/13/14 02:02 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/19/14 02:29 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	job	08/19/14 12:23 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/20/14 01:14 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	HopeTex	08/20/14 09:26 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/30/14 01:55 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Mighty	08/30/14 04:06 AM
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Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Georgiabelle	08/30/14 04:29 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/30/14 11:18 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Nitty	08/31/14 05:58 AM
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