I am assuming you are lucky enough to live in a state that "punishes" affairs? I live in a no fault state so it doesn't matter what he does its 50/50..... your awesome, don't back down and don't give in to his rants. Let him squirm! I would live to see my H squirm a bit, he just seems to be happy/calm/no emotion.....
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction