I can relate too. My H told me last year (6 month after BD) that he was definitely moving on and his life with me was over. He didn’t want to get D at that time, saying that it would be better from the financial point of view to stay officially M’d. I think he said that because he didn’t think he could pull it through back then. After a few months he came and asked me if we should file for D jointly, like filing an application on some website together. Snort… I told him that he could go ahead do it by himself, send the paperwork to me, so I could pass it to my lawyer. He looked at me funny when I said that and asked me if I already had a lawyer. I told him that I didn’t, but I interviewed a few potential once. He left and I haven’t heard the D word ever since. It’s been almost two years since BD. He introduced himself to one of the people I know like “Bright’s soon to be ex”. My first reaction was “how soon?”. It was a few months ago. Still nothing. I’m prepared for anything though.
I’m also sitting and watching the show for now. I wait for him to do the filing, unless at some point I am ready to do it myself and move on.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
