Ye, sure, sounds nice. You would pass up an offer that would not leave you with any chance of losing your kids, your career etc so you could fight the charge? Ok.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS
Ye, sure, sounds nice. You would pass up an offer that would not leave you with any chance of losing your kids, your career etc so you could fight the charge? Ok.
Do you realize that she might still use this against you right? And if there is written proof of an agreement on this, she has even more control over the situation.
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
My question is, are you asking your L to defend you on this no matter the consequences to her or are you trying to have the L to be nice to her?
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
Eric, I missed your post. Yes, I'll admit, I am getting a bit angry by this. I shouldn't let it get to me, it's been a long day, lots going on and this hasn't honestly helped a whole lot.
Was I angry during our marriage. At times I was and it was a big part of the reason my wife left. I think I've been doing well with dealing with anger in the last 6 months. I can't say I'll never get angry though. Anger in and of itself is not a bad thing. What is done based on it can be a negative.
While I was angry in general at times in our marriage I was never physically or emotionally abuse to my wife. The worst I did was say the house was messy and one time said my wife was lazy. Not cool. Believe me I know. I'd kick my own backside if I could for saying garbage like that. Anyway, I'm a fairly big guy and my anger scared my wife, no question. It's something I'm doing pretty well with overall.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS
Forget about what its done, wear your b@lls back and find a L who is willing and good enought to help you with this injustice, that should be in your priority list, at the end you should not care about calling her lazy, but about to have those kids with you at least 50/50 and now a priority for you should be reduce to minimal the possibilities of not getting a 50/50 at least...
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
Scorp has a lawyer. She is working with him on the D paperwork & parenting plan. For now, we'll just stand by ready to support Scorp once again after W receives the paperwork.
It wouldnt be recommended to look for a L who looks more deep into this to analize the possibilities of this? Just myopinion, if the L its not really helping maybe consulting with others he will find one that might provide a different outcome... Thats like when you check with numerous doctors, maybe he can find a L specialized in cases like his one..
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
If you would read back to Scorp's previous posts, you'll find that he's spoke with 3 to 4 different L's before settling on his current L who practices family law.
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.