Wife in MLC and getting ready to go!

[CharlieBrown]

When I asked she said "There are many reasons, one in particular but now isn't the time to talk about it") and that was 3 weeks ago and I haven't brought it up since nor has she.

So, maybe it is time to ask her as a follow up? If she doesn't tell you, you are no worse off than today right?

Also, I understand the temptation to lay this all at your FIL's feet, and he does sound like a true grade-A scumbag, that is for sure. BUT...if your W was otherwise happy in her marriage, would she have fallen for his line? It sounds to me like you had some serious issues before, and she was already primed for the idea he presented?

Also, just saying, but it looks to me like the FIL is an easy scapegoat and the real issue is working on yourself to be the husband any woman would be a fool to leave. I am (was) a glass house resident, by the way, as I did the same thing when my W went through an MLC. She was obsessed with a trainer/actor, to the point she wanted us to move to his city, and all I could think about was that guy. I watched his twitter and FB for updates that my W would see, I snooped constantly, and generally drove myself nuts. As it turns out, none of that was too helpful (unless you are trying to become a sleep deprived lunatic, then it is extremely helpful). Focus on GAL and being the best father and husband you can be. Since she may not let you be the greatest husband, be the greatest father and person overall.

CB

PS - I love that you acted like an adult and didn't let your D go have sex for a summer. I was unbelievably appalled at what your W said.