Eric, I missed your post. Yes, I'll admit, I am getting a bit angry by this. I shouldn't let it get to me, it's been a long day, lots going on and this hasn't honestly helped a whole lot.

Was I angry during our marriage. At times I was and it was a big part of the reason my wife left. I think I've been doing well with dealing with anger in the last 6 months. I can't say I'll never get angry though. Anger in and of itself is not a bad thing. What is done based on it can be a negative.

While I was angry in general at times in our marriage I was never physically or emotionally abuse to my wife. The worst I did was say the house was messy and one time said my wife was lazy. Not cool. Believe me I know. I'd kick my own backside if I could for saying garbage like that. Anyway, I'm a fairly big guy and my anger scared my wife, no question. It's something I'm doing pretty well with overall.


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS