Did I react ok? How would you react?

Our tax lady sent me a card since I got upset the other day. it wad just thinking of and call I can tell you were upset. I read it away from h as I knew I would make me cry. I came back five minutes later and he asked if I was ok, I smiled and said yes. He asked what the letter was, I said just a card. He said whatever and then stomped around like two year old til he went to work. This is 180 for me. Normally I would lose it and cry while he would not come near me or say anything. He had been cold with any touch ladt month, it has been nonexistent.