I have made the decision to move on. But part of me wants to see how this will go. We have never actually been to MC together before and she seems to really like and trust the consellor. He may be able to get her to talk about things she won't with me but then again maybe not I am determined to GAL whatever happens but I feel it is worth going just to see what comes of it. I am fully expecting her to try and say or do something to railroad things but I am going to stay calm and dignified. He seems to be very switched on and I am sure he will make sure she doesn't get away with any BS.