Road to happiness....Part 2

[ericmsant2]

Ye

I am affraid

Fear is normal. How you deal with it is the key. Accept the Fear, name it, understand it.

Afraid to fail

DB101 – change how you look at things.

Think of it this way….

Failing = learning and learning is indeed a positive.

when I was with her I was always affraid and scared to fail,

Well I guess the fact that you are not with her NOW is a good thing. Here is the thing….are you really scared to fail OR are you really afraid to TRY.

so when I lost jobs and couldnt make tons of money I was stressed out,

First off, the amount of money you make should NOT define YOU. You as a person. See a lot of times we base how we feel on what cloths we have, how much money we have, etc. It really is all superficial. I am not saying that having money is a bad thing – but money in an of itself is really not the solution.

Are nuns crappy people? Are priest? They do not make a lot of money…yet they usually are amazing people.

I was affraid of how it was gonna affect me to see her kissing other guy in her play so I couldnt go because of that,

Hey Ye…IMO, if a girl is gonna cheat on you she is going to. IMO, one of the biggest mistakes men make is thinking that the physical act of cheating is the worse. It really isn’t. Women tend to be more emotional (not saying they do not like physical activity). When they love, they tend to love from the heart (not the lower extremities). They love with their emotions. So what she was gonna kiss someone. She is actress. Once you feel better about yourself, you will not be worrying about this. Once you KNOW in YOUR heart that you are a hell of a dude…we’ll then all of these insecurities start to go away.

my daily basis its been always affraid to do a mistake, for me my life have to had no mistakes so when she left me for mistakes that today I realize they werent so big I tend to feel dissapointed of myself, I underestand people does mistakes,

First stop living in the past. You made mistakes, I made mistakes, your W made mistakes…everyone makes mistakes.

The key is to LEARN from them and NOT repeat them over and over and over again.

So raise your right hand…and repeat after me… “I ye…promise to do the best I can. I WILL make mistakes. I am not perfect. Only God is perfect. I do promise myself that I will always try my best. I cannot control if that is not enough for other people. It will be enough for me”.

Now let go of all of your mistakes.

It is a new day brother….

I am not able yet to forgive those mistakes even if I realize that they were things I could not control...

GUILT – Let it go. I know…I know…”how”? Honestly, it is very simple IMO, you CHOOSE to let it go. Choose to live for TODAY not in your past.

I did not went to her play, I didnt made enough money,

I didn’t sh*t lilies when my ex asked me to! I am fine with that. It was NOT ALL YOUR fault Ye. I know it may feel like it…but it was not. Let it go brother…let go of the guilt.

Now….do me a favor…your next post should be positive. All positive.

Need inspiration?


How would you live your life…if you knew you only had 2 months to live? Would you be miserable? Would you rot in a pit of guilt?

Better yet….

How do you know that I do not have 2 months to live? Chit I am just words on a screen brother….

My point….Live life the best way you can. Look forward and up…not back and down. Choose that for YOU Ye.