What else is it you all think I should be doing that I'm not doing right now?
Please bear in mind that the laws in Canada are not the same as the US when it comes to family law.
Human rights laws are universal in every place of the world.... Besides that, not taking your inventory Scorp but one thing that comes to my mind everytime I read you, you keep not trying to piss off your W based in " she is not fine" Here is what you cant read, she did took actions to separate from you and besides that, actions tk separate you from your kids....
In my opinion, if my W comes tomorrow with 3 guys to beat the [censored] out of me and leave me paralized for not assisting to her play or support her financially while we were together....there is a big chance those three guys will leave my house in pretty bad shape, its not violence its just pure self defense....my W will be sued and well then court will take care of the case...despite if we R or not, the relationship with her has nothing to do with that...
You basically cant see this, you cant separate the ACTIONS SHE TOOK TOWARDS YOUR UNIVERSAL RIGHT OF PARENTING" and for me it seems that you are justifying talking to a L so at the end you can say, welm I did everything "legally" possible.... We all know law and we know how numerous times its not fair, and sorry but as others I dont believe that in Canada the law says: -mothers can kidnapp the kids and fathers will only recover kids if a judge fails to give them custody... No matter who of you take the kids I believe from both sides its kidnnapping, now what you can do its sue her and go bring those kids back, once she is being sued you have the right to bring them back, no judge will deny this since a kidnnapping its an ilegal action and at this point we dont know the intentions of your W.
Anyway, you can seat and keep seeing things how you see them, basically you waited 5 months to see if she "will wake up" ok, she didnt...you gave her enough time, now its time for you to do things in a different way, one of them its to sue her, arrive to the town, bring cops with you to the house and bring those kids back, no negotiation with her needs to be done... I mean that its an option if you really want your kids back, this case its basically winned by you but I dont underestand why you dont want to see it?? If you dont move because you thing its good for the R, I have to tell you that in this case it might not help... Basically now if you acuse her of kidnapping, youll get full custody... If you dont do nothing, its hard for you to get custody because she can even accuse you of abandonment towards those kids....
Its time for you to be honest Scorp, people its giving you advice and you keep justifying not following it and my question is....are you telling all the true? I cant really chew that they arrested you for no reason, its just makes no sense, specially if in your town you say that women do that all the time....a judge and other authorities should be looking at that and see how so many unjustified arrests just make no sense... I will underestand if it was only your case but you said it happened many times before....Scorp, authorities might be dumb once, twice or 3 times but once they see a pattern man...
Oh and just so you know I am not judging you, at the end its your life and you can do what you want, but ask for advice and not following it at all its like at least disrespectfull to yourself.
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.