I don't think she could hurt me any more than she already has. I am interested to hear what she has to say as she has yet to explain why she wants to end our marriage so suddenly. I know we weren't perfect bit we were pretty good. Also I've yet to see any remorse for her affair, that would be nice. I have the boys mainly because our 9 year old has behavioural issues and hated going from house to house. We asked him what he wanted and he said he wanted to stay here all the time. She agreed but was supposed to come round every day to help. That lasted one week and now she only comes Mon and Tues. I will ask her to help out though as I do get tired and would like a break. Even one night per week. Prob is I think she should be offering but she seems happy to let me get on with it.
