Thank you, Starsky. We have a friend who is a L. He represents me but was willing to draw up the papers as long as we are in agreement. Obviously we aren't in agreement. L told H to take our pitch to his own L to see if another L finds it fair.

I just get so stinking bent out of shape when he comes unglued like that. But you're right: these are his consequences. And I won't live in fear of this turning into a legal battle. It is what it is.

Thankfully, his rants are all in texts so I can choose to not respond.


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014