Talk me down here, folks. I'm not going to respond. But what IS this?!???
Why do we need to "talk you down" ? You already indicate that you know what (not!) to do.
Stop being so reactionary, Train -- you are a bright, attractive, articulate woman. LET HIM TWIST. Next time you're on the phone or in person with him and he goes into the "thanks a lot!" legal rant, just say "You know, there's a reason that put that little 'v' in between the names of the parties, dear heart."
For now, let him be. He's in full-blown entitlement mode, and I suspect that some legal and financial realities are hitting him in the face now. Let them hit. Your mantra (but do NOT respond now!!!) is "I'm sorry you feel that way. Everything I'm doing I am doing to protect myself and the kids as best I can."
