Here's what I still don't get: you say the most important thing to you is getting 50/50 time with your kids. And you have long time posters who have seen at lot of different situations here posting to you AND all fought and got 50/50 custody. Yet you dismiss their advice out of hand and say you've got it all handled.

But you'll spend six pages of posts on a simple email response to your estranged wife to try and get every word right.

Why? I don't get it.


Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.