Wow. I really needed to read your post Hearts Blessings. My journey was there when I met my H and he chose to take a u turn within 6 months of our M. I was in the know about a few things why, but searched and discovered so far so many things that are making me grow and learn that I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. I'll be okay not matter if the D ends our marriage and H never wants the M. Thanks again for expressing there's hope and it's all about my journey and H is on his own journey, especially since I gave him over to God.