Wonka, I appreciate your input, I do, but to insinuate I'm not doing everything I can to have my kids with me is BS and fairly insulting.

That's great what your Dad did. From what you've told me, if he did what you have told me in my province under today's laws he would have been in jail. Where would that have led to with child custody? The fact you mother was "fine" makes ALL THE DIFFERENCE IN THE WORLD! My W has not been "fine" so I am doing what needs to be done.

Serving my W with D papers today or the end of next week will have NO BARRING on my kids in the long run. Filing for interim custody is a likelihood within the next week or two. If my L advises that's the best way to go to achieve my goal then I will defer to her.

It's very easy to sit back and with all the info you have now look at things that happened before and say you messed up here, and there etc etc etc.


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS