tld, the more time he spends with ow, the faster it is going to get old. By the way, how do you know what he does for ow? Does he tell you about it? Sorry, if I missed this in your previous posts.
His behavior is typical MLC. Yeah, he is mentally unstable.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state