Scorp,

Wonka, is there something else you think I should be doing???

How badly do you want ACCESS/TIME with your kids? That is the crux of whole matter...really. Frankly, if my mom had done this (read, kidnapping) when I was 2, you bet my Dad would have showed up on her doorstep and bringing me back. If that failed, he'd be the on the phone with the police reporting the kidnapping within 24/48 hours.

If I were in your shoes, I'd turn every thing upside down in the L's office...everything in my path...to get more time with the kids. I'd be on the phone with the L every day asking when it'll happen...have the papers been sent out today... what next after that...etc?

That's just me.