He dropped the bomb on 3/29/13 and moved out a few weeks later.
I've had two threads here but they are both locked now and I don't know how to link.
OW confirmed July 2013. He's still with her, has introduced her to the kids, rubs her in my nose when he comes to pick up our children.
Put divorce on hold in November to reconcile. It was a flop. He continued to see OW behind my back. Proceeded with divorce in February.
And here we are. Divorce still not final. Him still with OW but constantly making comments about us staying together or remarrying in the future and crying on my shoulder for hours about how unhappy he is.
I don't want a divorce but really don't have any reason to believe he's ever coming home.
Sigh. Just feeling sad today. I'm doing everything I need to do. Therapy, new job, new friends, running, etc...
But at the end of the day, I still just really miss him and don't understand why he continues to make comments about staying together. Is it just jerky manipulation? I don't want you but don't want anybody else to have you either?
I just wish I could get to the point that I WANT this divorce. It should be final within a few weeks.
