Drew,I don't think it's likely my situation is going to be figured out any time soon. I agree it's not likely that my W is going to change her approach with the custody issue. At the least, my W will know that I am going to take action to back up what I've been saying for so long. Regardless of what she may or may not think I am doing what I need to do for myself and my kids.

Depending on how my W responds we will go forward from there. My L has been doing family law up her for over 30 years so I'm going to defer to her when it comes to how best to proceed.


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS