Eric, I'm not afraid to make my W angry. Treating her how I would like to be treated myself isn't a bad thing. If she asks me a question I'm going to give her an answer.
My L and I spoke again yesterday and the plan now is to have her served, see how she responds and go from there. My L is having her served with D papers which will happen sometime between Friday and early next week, depending on when the process server can get to her town. Depending on my W's response there are further steps I can take with regard to my kids. My L has advised I do not deal with anything else until we have an agreement on our kids.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS