I see a lot of H's say similar things about the WAW not pulling back or rejecting when he would touch her. Just as to inform men, in case they don't know (and I feel a lot apparently don't)............when/if your W doesn't say or do something negative toward a non-sexual touch, you should not assume it is okay with her. Many women tolerate a touch, rather than making a big deal over it. But that doesn't mean she wanted it.
Now to me, massaging her hurting feet may be more welcomed simpy b/c of not finding too many who will do the job. . It also seems to have a calming/relaxing effect and possibly give opportunity to chatting (but not R). I can see this being a door to her being more comfortable around you and perhaps not as defensive. She may feel this is "safe" as opposed to you trying to touch elsewhere. Make sense?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
. It also seems to have a calming/relaxing effect and possibly give opportunity to chatting (but not R). I can see this being a door to her being more comfortable around you and perhaps not as defensive. She may feel this is "safe" as opposed to you trying to touch elsewhere. Make sense?