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You STILL have to decide if dating while still married fits within your own moral framework


Considering my marriage essentially became a joke in God's eyes in 2005 ... and again when H dipped his you-know-what in OW a couple months ago ... I'm not sure I'll find a big problem with it from a moral standpoint. But I'd be afraid it would introduce MORE problems if H and I ever decide to work on our M. But if he completely moves on in the next year, I don't know that I'd be willing to sit and wait.

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it DOES draw them back


The part that is appealing about that idea is that if they come back open to conditions, then maybe ... just maybe ...


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014