You're reading past the "competitive" part, Train.
Gotcha. Okay.
But what does that mean for me now? What advantage - if any - does it provide? What can I DO with this information?
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will it be effective (warning: it often IS)
Effective ... as in ... it'll help me get over H? It'll get his attention and perhaps nudge him to want to work things out later? It'll pi$s him off? All of the above?
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014