Men are horny, competitive, horny, territorial, horny, stubborn, competitive horny creatures.
Yes, okay, point well taken. BUT ... you're not going to be like that to just ANYONE. And certainly not to your boring, nagging W while you're with OW. Right?
So it's as simple as: Maybe he's not quite as "over me" as he's led me to believe? Or as "over me" as he'd LIKE to be?
THAT is what I'm not understanding. Why is he still "interested" in ME at all???
That's what makes everything so hard and confusing for me. How can a man leave me for OW and then still engage in a "push/pull relationship" with *ME* ... the woman he LEFT?
Okay, off to read what you mentioned ...
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014
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