Road to happiness....Part 2

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It brings me back to the point in my head that keeps telling me: if you dont pay all this debts right away she will see no changes and sent you the D papers...
So thats my path I keep believing that I will be punished for not doing things "right" and I start to freak out and get in the fear mood...

Still living in FEAR I see…


Ye

What are you really afraid of? I’ll do a little mind reading here in the hopes that maybe it helps….


1) Are you afraid she is gonna leave? She’s already done that. Guess what. YOU SURVIVED it!
2) Are you afraid that you will not be able to take care of yourself? You seem to be managing. Bills are getting paid – even if they are late…they are still getting paid!
3) Are you afraid that she will “never” come back? I’m gonna touch on “never” in a bit… If you continue to focus on HER then this fear will never go away. Let me ask you a question…. Do you fear that you may not wake up in the morning? Do you fear that crossing the street in NYC that you will get hit by a bus, by a car? Do you fear that an earthquake will hit the city you live in? If any of these apply – then WHAT can you really do to face the fear? IMO, NOTHING. So let it go.

I know I have to focus on myself as well but I dont know if I am supposed to give up any hope and thts the way to go or what....

What is hope YE? What does hope mean to YOU?

I hope that tomorrow will be sunny.

Does the fact that it is raining TODAY….change my HOPE for tomorrow?

The way things ended it made seem that she is completelly done...

IMO, one of the biggest mistakes we make is to THINK and FEEL like things or sitch are “FOREVER” or will “NEVER” happen. It is flawed thinking.

Do you know what tomorrow brings?

Do you think the person that won the last powerball thought “NEVER”

Stop thinking in absolute terms. Stop thinking that where YOU are today is where YOU will be tomorrow. No one knows.

Your W could wake up tomorrow and say…..”WTF am I doing – I love Ye”. No one knows.

Train YOUR mind to LIVE in the MOMENT. Train YOUR mind to NOT predict the future. Live for today.

No one here can make YOU have HOPE. That is something that has to come from inside YOU.