The problem I am having is my W is asking for cooperation in giving her what she wants which is a D. I go back and forth about this.
Right now though I am in the mindset that I will not fight her to not file but I may drag my feet a little in granting some of her requests that she wants to speed up the process.
She hasn't filed and I don't when or if she will but the more I feel lied to the more I don't feel like cooperating as much as she would like.
I know this will turned around on me but If she cant be truthful and upfront like she says she is then why should I help out?
I really am trying to not be such a jerk because that would go against everything I have done to improve myself but I cant control how I am perceived so I just have to remain calm and rational but firm in my dealings with the W.
She has put herself in the one-down position not me so if she can put herself there she sure can get herself back out.
I cant and don't want to rescue her anymore. At one point I thought that was just what a caring, loving H did for his W but I guess I did it too much and W feels like she lost her own Identity.
That was never my intent.
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014
