I'm so confused. How can someone that laughs and smiles at me all day still say she wants a divorce?? I didn't directly ask her that but she said tonight after dinner"its obvious she (my grandmother) doesn't know).
I think it's all just part of where the WAS is mentally. My wife is the same way. Most of the time you would think we were still a happy couple. I try not to question it and just take her at her word that she's still moving out (it's a struggle not to get my hopes up). For instance, W and I had a great time out to dinner the other night and twice had other diners stop and tell us what a cute couple we make, and yet... W is going out with her sister tonight to break the D news to her. I just try to remind myself that for all intents and purposes I'm dealing with an insane person...nothing she does is going to make sense.
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14
